Bullying is one the biggest issues out in the world right now. I'm pretty sure it always has been. Not only does it happen in schools, but at work, in public common places, even in your own home. Someone being bullied can be scared forever. The history of pain, can haunt them, stay with them and change their future. Just bullying alone can damage someone's life. Anyone can be a bully. It’s mostly done because they’re own life sucks, or it’s being done just for fun. I was bullied at some point in my life, so far. It was the most horrible feeling I had ever had, aside getting heartbroken. Have I ever bullied someone? No, I have not. I have been mean to people, but I would NEVER bully someone daily, or someone who may look like they're from a lower chain. Which is no one, no one is better than me, or less than I.
Bullying is cruel and very hurtful. It involves hurting someone’s feelings. Why would someone be so mean as to hurt others emotionally, physically, and mentally. Maybe their jealous of that one persons simple, happy, full of joy they have in life. The one or many of the people bullies may be hurting, comes with a price in the end. It’ll come around and those being bullied will stand up for themselves one day. Everything has consequences in the end. “Actions speak loud than words.” They’ll take action, while your speaking. To be realistic, the one being the “Bully” won’t like it very much, and the one being “Bullied” will probably get bullied twice as much for it. But to think in thought that who was being bullied stood up and had courage, did what he/she had to do.
Not only does bullying take place on or off school grounds, with kids and teens but also at work; with co-workers. It can be happening in your very own home as well. The chances to being depressed because your being bullied are very high.
Teens, kids suffer from emotional damage daily, if being bullied. They often look to committing suicide as a way out. They go through depression and may also think that running away, as good escape. I think that it would only make things worst, not only for them but for those around them; friends, family, etc. being depressed over the fact of being bullied, is sad. No one should ever go though depression, especially because of someone’s insane way to make your life miserable. Adults being bullied are maybe people who get pushed around at work; they also go through depression, and thoughts of suicide. With bullying occurring at homes is because, it may be happening between siblings, adult and child, or between two adults. It may come to be surprising, but its very true.
Some bullies choose to do what they do because their having problems of their own. They take it out on others by being mean, even doing what is being done to them to others. Low self-esteem can also be a case. They see what others have and want it or ruin it, as if “if I can‘t have it, neither can you.” Jealousy. Another reason why, their probably just plain out mean. It can be enjoyable to them, and that’s why they do it. Which is an understatement because there is no excuse to ever being mean just to be mean.
Being bullied is the worst feeling to ever have to go through. I would know this from personal experience, and till this day, I can look back and feel the pain; still. I was bullied in 6th grade for quite a while. I was the new kid that no one knew and so they picked on me. I was being bullied by these “popular” girls, which they thought they were better than me and that they could just push down my self-esteem. I did over come it, and I stood up for myself. Sure, it may sound like something from a movie scene, but its true. I can think back and still feel hurt, but I also think about the friends I made and the fact that they were popular, no longer mattered. I had found who I was always meant to be friends with, the “outcast”. Which was perfectly okay with me! They were awesome friends. That whole experience made me who I am today. I have NEVER bullied someone to just do, or out of jealousy. I would never want someone to feel as bad as I did while being bullied, because it still hurts me to this day. The thing here is, that I have been mean. Rude, maybe. I do regret that cruelty of me, and everyone says, “No regrets.” That’s a lie. I would know, as I said, I regret ever being mean to anyone.
Bullying comes with consequences, and after effects. There are reasons why bullies bully, and its horrible. Its horrible to be bullied and or to be the bully. It leads to suicide, depression, and long term pain; regrets. Personal experience. I may not have this big story on how I was picked on, but I was and I will always remember the feeling. I have made mistakes in life by being mean, I guess bullying, I have paid the price for that as well. Its karma, and I believe in, “what goes around, comes around.” I would most definitely defend causes against bullying.
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